Yong Sing...

If you wanna be the one, that's the risk u need to take when u dunno if u are the one.
Nobody will be able to define the one, as no one knows wat happens in the future..
Kang is rite in a way, 1st u need to decide if u wanna be the one, den u will have to take the risk to find out if u r her 'the one'.
It's the risk tat everyone has to take.. there will be 期待, hope, disappointment, heartbreaks, happiness, sweetness etc..
Time may be the factor, or mayb the feelings u feel towards each other
No matter how much we stir, i guess the decision still lies between the "当局者"s to decide how u want the result to be..

P.S. from experience: nv lie abt ur feelings abt 'the one' in the event of being stirred or "forced" to reveal. Silence helps at times if u dun feel like saying out yet or 开不了口..

All the best to all who are in search of "the one". May all be happy with who u chose. ('-^)

ChingYee.